Ryan I was friends with a guy who lost his only son in Nov
of 2008 and whose girlfriend gave him the boot in Feb of
2009. I was there for him the whole time as a friend and we
became close once he moved into his own place. I would spend
weekends with him and we would have a good time together
even though he really wasn' over his girlfriend, I still was
there for him because I felt bad about all that happen to
him. Especially the lost of his only child , who was 18yrs
old. I'm 45 and he is 43. I really did like this man alot, I
believe more than he liked me. Throughout the year he would
act strange as though he didn't want another girlfriend, but
I acted liked his girlfriend anyway. Then I started loaning
him money which he always paid back,but and in Dec of 2009 I
bought him a Xmas gift and the same day we came back from
shopping I asked him for the $60.00 that he owed me from
earlier that week and he got angry with me and gave it to me
and I have not talked with him since and he even changed his
phone number, but he text me on Xmas day and that ws the
last time I heard from him. I really thought we were friends
and I helped him alot the whole year of 2009 with odds and
ends and in the end he burnt me. I feel like a fool and now
I do not trust men and I don't want to be nice anymore. He
really hurt me not just because of the money but the way he
shutdown on me and I thought he appreciated me but he played
me. And he still owe me $200.00 that I am getting ready to
take him to small claims court for. He sould have been man
enough to break the friendship off or what ever it was. And
yes, he is with someone else that he just met at or around
the holiday. I hope he never do this to anyone
again. Signed-- Damaged Property